Photographer and head of the non-profit organization “Same But Different”, Ceridwen Hughes, recently met a boy named Maddox and his family when they came to her studio to take part in the Rare Project. Ceriden says that she “often feels a huge responsibility to photograph the people who take part, as I really want the personality to shine through and allow you to see the real person behind the condition. I am often moved by their experiences and this was particularly true for Maddox’s story.”
The story below was written by Maddox’s mom, Meryl Ockenden.
Maddox is a determined, energetic and typical little two year old boy. He is cheeky, naughty and completely wonderful. He is our eldest child and the journey we have been on so far has completely changed our outlook on life.
He was diagnosed with hypophosphatasia (HPP) at 10 days old. This condition is an inherited metabolic disease that is a serious, progressive and lifelong condition that can damage bones and organs. This condition disrupts a process called mineralization, in which minerals such as calcium and phosphorus are deposited in developing bones and teeth. Mineralization is critical for the formation of bones that are strong and rigid.
During birth Maddox broke several ribs, both wrists and was an extremely poorly little baby. Doctors were unsure as to why he was not improving after birth and following further tests were able to diagnose HPP. In some ways we were fortunate as they diagnosed his condition early, despite it being an ultra rare condition, and even though they had no experience of the condition his consultants contacted other hospitals to see how best to treat him. One of the biggest learning curves for us was the fact that doctors do not always have all the answers.
On the day he was diagnosed I met with two new doctors who I had never met before. They said that they thought they knew what condition Maddox had but did not know for sure until they carried out further tests. The doctors did not want to tell me the name in case I researched it online but they did eventually tell me. My partner, Lewis, was at work and breaking the news to him is possibly one of my worst memories. We had thought that Maddox’s condition was improving and then to be told his diagnosis was devastating. When symptoms occur in children before 6 months of age over 70% of children die before they reach 5 years old. At this stage the outcome looked very bleak.
Like most people we were really not aware of the complexity of rare diseases. We all assume that a consultant will diagnose a condition and then know how to treat it but with rare diseases that is often not the case. Our Doctor called other hospitals to see if they had treated anyone with this condition and he spoke to someone who had treated a child in Manchester. He was aware of a drug trial that was being carried out in three centres: Manchester, Birmingham and Sheffield. We chose Birmingham and we were transferred there so that treatment could begin. That sounds simple but the reality is very different. We lived down South and so it meant moving to hospital hundreds of miles away from family and friends for 3 ½ months. I was on my own with Maddox most of the time because Lewis had to carry on working. Thankfully we have a strong support network and friends and family were able to visit. The staff at the hospital were really supportive.
When we were first told about the drug trial we were really not very hopeful because very little was known about it in our own hospital. The support we received from Birmingham
Children’s hospital was wonderful as they were able to tell us so much more about the condition, the impact the trial had on other children and ultimately we knew it was our only
hope. Without this drug he wouldn’t be here today. He was such a poorly baby and they had even discussed the possibility of needing to intubate him to help him breath and they put him in a different cot in case he needed to be resuscitated.
The treatment has been amazing though as within just a short amount of time we noticed a difference in his breathing and his strength.
We have to inject Maddox three times a week. This in itself can be traumatic as he is too young to explain why we have to do this and it takes two of us to do it. One to hold him and the other to inject. It is a small price to pay for seeing him running around and playing like any other two year old. Maddox also has a feeding tube and this can sometimes cause problems especially in social situations where meals are involved. We really don’t want him to miss out and we wish there was greater awareness of rare diseases and their impact.
In the early days it was all about how to get through the next day. First there was the trauma of his birth, then diagnosis and then the start of the trial and the huge improvement in his condition. We never really looked to the future or even considered the possibility of the trial coming to an end. This is now a reality.
We were recently informed that the trial is coming to an end and the drug company are in talks with NICE (National Institute for Health and Care Excellence) to discuss if they will fund this treatment. As a family we have been supported by Climb (www.climb.org) throughout this process as they are acting as an official consultee for patient experience to ensure we are represented.
It is possible that as Maddox grows and develops he may reach a point where he is strong enough to cope without the drug but we have to get him to that stage. In these early days, for a child who has the condition as severely as Maddox, this drug treatment is our only hope.
As parents all you want is the best for your children, Rare diseases by their very nature are extremely complex and as such it takes a huge team to ensure the very best treatment path is open to you. We are hopeful that a solution will be found in time to ensure our son continues to grow stronger and live the life we want for him.
We were delighted to take part in the Rare Project as we wanted to share our story with other parents so that they would understand how rare diseases can impact on lives. It is important that people don’t make assumptions when they see a child with a feeding tube, using a wheelchair or behaving differently. No one really knows what that family is going through so they should not be too quick to judge.
Dr Larissa Kerecuk, Rare Disease Lead for Birmingham Children’s Hospital highlighted the important role they play in treating those with rare diseases. “We see over 9000 children with 500 different rare diseases per year at Birmingham Children’s Hospital and we know that children, young people and families affected by rare diseases face so many challenges. So, we are very proud to developing the 1st Children’s Rare Disease Centre in the UK which will help to coordinate the care, improve diagnosis, reduce isolation by providing peer support and information as well as ensuring access to research and treatment.”
You can visit the Same but Different (www.samebutdifferentcic.org.uk) website to view the Rare Project gallery and learn about the people behind a whole range of rare diseases
About Ceridwan Hughes
“One of my children has a rare disease called Moebius Syndrome, that causes facial paralysis. It is because I have experienced first-hand how people make judgements based on initial appearances and often do not stop to find out more about the person behind the condition that I started Same but Different.” Hughes wanted to find a way to break down barriers and at the same time give people who often felt isolated a way to express themselves. She is passionate about capturing that moment in time that draws the observer in to want to know more. If it ignites interest or simply makes someone pause then “I am happy. ”
Same but Different was established in May 2015 and the Rare Project has been extremely well received. The organization has had coverage in publications in over 21 different countries and people travel from throughout the UK to take part in the project. They have exhibited their portraits in many different locations and Hughes has spoken at a number of conferences and events sharing both her own experiences of being a parent to a child with a rare disease and on the aims of Same but Different.